I've been bumping into many molesters nowadays. Is it a trend or what?
In my workplace, such molesters do exist. We have a colleague from China who seemed to be really nice and helpful initially. Eventually, we found out that he's a molester.
1. Angel's hands were touched before.
2. He like to caress my hands. He hugged me from behind before while I was alone in the bar, and his head putting on my shoulders. I ran away everytime he did that to me. On Monday, I worked straight shift together with him. I had to have my lunch with him at B3. As the lift is always slow, we usually take a staircase down. On the way, we were talking about my weight. Suddenly, he lifted me up from behind. I was like so fucking shocked. Scolded him because I was frighten.
3. He did what he did to me to yuying also.
4. He said he love me on msn. I was like so stoned, so shocked. Everytime i come online, he'll talk mushy stuffs to me.. Everytime i come online, he'll give me a virtual rose.
5. He said that to yuying too. lol.
6. He never did anything to Belinda (Peising i haven't ask her..) because her bf is working in Sheraton.
And we these 3 stupid girls just kept quiet all the way till..
Today, Belinda accidentally mentioned that Yuying got touched by yong qiang in the past. After hearing that, i blurted out everything that he said and did to me (Told Jessie, Sha, Elaine they all before though..). We combined our stories and concluded that he's a problem.
Talked to yuying on the phone awhile ago. Finalized that he used the same tactic to kinda "chase + molested" us. Everytime we come online, he'll give us a virtual rose. Then he said the same thing to us, e.g. I wanted to give you real roses, but i don't dare because i scared you don't like then reject. lol. He said he love us. lol. He told me that he don't love yuying but me. He told yuying that he love her but not me. lol. I was like laughing throughout the conversation. How could someone be so naive to tell the same things to 2 different girls, good friends some more.
That's not exactly the point actually. We're really bothered by the way he harass us. Wanted to make a complain, but hesitated as it'll really cause him into serious trouble. My parents will definitely be notified, and no complains will be made. A lawyer letter will be sent to him within 2 days.
Confronted him just now. Told him off. This is what I wrote :
buzhiming says:
(Puts a rose)
buzhiming says:
why today come so late
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
went out
buzhiming says:
enjoy you off day or not
buzhiming says:
i mean just now you went out
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
yep
buzhiming says:
good to hear that ,
buzhiming says:
you happy i happy too
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
..
buzhiming says:
what is the meaning of ...
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
nothing
buzhiming says:
because sometime you using the symbol like lol, '..." (=
buzhiming says:
i donot know what is the meaning
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
oh..
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
nothing lah
buzhiming says:
tomorrow night we will go out to eat after work
buzhiming says:
would you like to join
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
dont think so
buzhiming says:
the whole libai staff
buzhiming says:
i told you last time , we celebrate by the end of chinese new year
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
yah i know
buzhiming says:
then you donot want to go
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
dont feel like gng
buzhiming says:
go lah, give yourself a chance to having supper together
buzhiming says:
donot need to pay
buzhiming says:
just eating ,
buzhiming says:
after finishing your supper , we are free to go
buzhiming says:
you may go to ktv, or go back home
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
cos they all not gng
buzhiming says:
who
buzhiming says:
you mean peising
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
angel belinda
buzhiming says:
yah
buzhiming says:
think peising will go
buzhiming says:
i havenot check with angel , and belinda
buzhiming says:
because today you not duty
buzhiming says:
(Puts a broken heart)
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
whats with the broken hearT?
buzhiming says:
because you donot like togo
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
i nv go wont die 1 lah
buzhiming says:
sure you wonot die
buzhiming says:
i just feel it is pity that we cannot dineing together
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
seriously, i talked to yuying abt u just now.
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
i dont want to keep it from u
buzhiming says:
what do you mean
buzhiming says:
did she never tell you i love you
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
huh?
buzhiming says:
the what did you talk with her just now about me
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
what do u think?
buzhiming says:
no idea, that is why i ask you
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
C'mon. We're good friends.. don't you think we wont pour everything out to say?
buzhiming says:
yah i know
buzhiming says:
but i m eager to know what do you talking about me
buzhiming says:
i like to know my shortpoint , then i will make improve
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
ok, I'll come 2 straight pt. Me, angel, and yuying is not comfortable abt u being too close to us.
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
And i understand that what u told me.. abt what love what rose.. you told yuying also
buzhiming says:
en
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
we might seem young, but we're not stupid
buzhiming says:
sorry for what i did to all of you,
buzhiming says:
if you told me earlier ,
buzhiming says:
then i will know about that ,
buzhiming says:
really sorry ,
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
we actually wanted to lodge a complain abt u.
buzhiming says:
it wonot happen it again
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
But since you're our colleague, we let the matter rest
buzhiming says:
thanks you
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
plz apologize to angel and yuying as well
buzhiming says:
sure
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
They might be scared to talk 2 u.. but im not.
buzhiming says:
i really donot know about that
buzhiming says:
now i understand that
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
what do u mean by u dont know?
buzhiming says:
i donot know what do you think
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
you mean its your culture in china to do that to girls?
buzhiming says:
yah
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
YAH?!!?!
buzhiming says:
becaue last time in china ,
buzhiming says:
i take you as friend we donot care about that
buzhiming says:
really sorry about that
buzhiming says:
thank you for telling me that
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
friends? love here love there = friends?
buzhiming says:
no ,
buzhiming says:
you can check with them
buzhiming says:
i talk with them i using the word like , and secret admire
buzhiming says:
not love , only you
buzhiming says:
for this i can prove
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
huh? i dont get u
buzhiming says:
it is ok ,
buzhiming says:
rose is greating
buzhiming says:
great you everyday happy
buzhiming says:
maybe i useing the wrong flower
buzhiming says:
so will make them think about love
buzhiming says:
i promise you , it wonot happen anymore
buzhiming says:
and i will do appolize for them sincerly
buzhiming says:
different culture cause different behavier
buzhiming says:
in my one, i touch your hands , just want to pass you strength,
buzhiming says:
because everytime i saw all of you look like very unhappy
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
whatever your reason might be, i just hope this wont happen again.
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
If i hear any complains from them, then sorry.
buzhiming says:
just give me a chance
buzhiming says:
from tomorrow onward
buzhiming says:
i wonot do that anymore
buzhiming says:
if the first time you tell me the thing ,
buzhiming says:
i think i wonot make you so uncomfortable
buzhiming says:
thank you very much ,
buzhiming says:
i will totally change my culture ,
buzhiming says:
bad culture to you
buzhiming says:
can i ask you a question
buzhiming says:
why you tell me this thing,
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
because i feel u ought to know
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
and i feel your doing too much
buzhiming says:
en
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
We're not those girls you'll find in your village.
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
We might not be ultra smart, yet we are not stupid too.
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
We have mouth to speak to each other.
buzhiming says:
en
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
Besides, education made us more expressive towards people
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
We won't just keep quiet like that
buzhiming says:
you give me a very good education tonight
buzhiming says:
it is never too late to know about that
Met him with his new girl. *Not feeling well* says:
ok good bye
buzhiming says:
thank you
buzhiming says:
i hope next time i have doing anything wrong
buzhiming says:
you can point out like this tonight
buzhiming says:
did you accept my applogize
---- Log off ----
Lol. That's exactly our conversation. Red is him, orange is me. You might find his language alittle wierd because his english not that good. Thus, analyse yourself. Crappy he can really be i feel. All sorts of stupid reasons he give. But whatever, don't want to push him further. I'm just fine if he don't do anything stupid. Angel and yuying, make sure he apologize to you all.